The Socials

          The Socials are the main event on an international romance tour. This is where you will meet around one hundred beautiful women on a Latin tour and over 200 on a Ukraine tour. Agencies like A Foreign Affair the largest and most reputable tour agency like a ratio of 8 women to each man. Here is brief description on what the Social experience is like.

           

 Around an hour before the first social you will meet the interpreters outside the ballroom entrance. This is the time to get to know them and find one that you are comfortable with who can be your interpreter for the evening.  It is important for her to get to know what you are looking for in a woman along with the basic background of your life. This includes have you been married, do you have kids and so on. The more she knows about you, the more she can help you. Make a plan! I asked my interpreter to keep notes on the ladies. At each table she would write down all the ladies names, age, how many children if any, and their ages. When we left the table I would tell her if any lady interested me and she would circle her name. This way I would not forget the lady - with so many women it is easy to get confused.

While you are meeting the interpreters, the ladies will be starting to arrive for the social. For the ladies to attend they must have been invited to the social by the agency. Ladies will sign in and receive their nametags and be seated in the ballroom. I’ll tell you this: at times it was difficult to talk with the interpreters – some of the ladies would really catch your eye and distract you. Seeing all those beautiful ladies walking in all dressed up in sexy eveningwear, WOW!

            Take a minute and remember what you want and what you are looking for in a woman -and tell yourself to stay focused. At times it will be difficult!

            The excitement is building, and then your interpreter turns to you and says, “it’s time;” she takes your arm and escorts you into the ballroom – you’ll feel like a king! While you are walking into the ballroom you are just amazed at all the stunningly beautiful woman -all interested in meeting you. It truly is an amazing feeling. You are escorted onto a stage and the manager of the agency introduces the gentleman. After the introduction your interpreter will escort you to your first table of women. Once you are seated, you will introduce yourself to the ladies. But my interpreter and I decided that she would just introduce me, as this would save time where I could interact with the ladies more. Once I was introduced, the ladies would introduce themselves. We would ask each other questions about what we liked, hobbies, work and just about anything else.

Believe me - you will be nervous at first but after a few minutes you will become more relaxed. Try to joke and laugh and have a good time while talking with the ladies - they like nothing better than a warm smile and a good laugh. The ladies are fantastic, very interesting; you can tell they are very sincere, and genuinely hoping to find a life partner. When talking with a woman always make good eye contact with her. You can learn so much from there eyes and facial expressions. About every 20 minutes you will move to a different table. Makes sure that if there was a woman that really caught you eye, to either get her phone number or have you interpreter makes a note where you can arrange to contact her later. 

About 90 minutes into the social they will have some entertainment. At the social I attended they had traditional Colombian music with dancers. They had the guys up dancing with the dancers and then they had everybody dancing. It was a nice break and a lot of fun. About half way through the social they serve a nice buffet dinner. This is a time to relax, mingle, and think about the woman you have met. Before the social ends ask a lady if she would like to go dancing after the social, a lot of the guys will go together with their dates. This is a lot of fun - you are getting to know your date and also bond with the guys. Also with either the same lady or a different lady set up a date for the next day for the mid-morning city tour.

“On the tour do not expect to get much sleep - you can sleep when you get home”