Last week I began a series on key tips on the basics about what to
do and not to do on a tour. Below are more does and next week
will be the don’ts.
- Take your time! This
will give the women you meet the opportunity to get to know you. This will
allow both of you time to develop a solid relationship that will enhance
your chances of success. Be careful not to put pressure on a lady, or
you’ll come off as being desperate or arrogant. By taking your time,
you’ll demonstrate confidence and the lady will feel more comfortable
being with you, which will allow for more open communication.
- When you go on a tour, meet as many ladies as you possibly can - it’s your best opportunity to meet so many beautiful and intelligent women in one place. Don’t loose this opportunity. The more women you meet, the better chance you’ll have to find that elusive chemistry.
- When you invest your time and money to travel on a romance tour, you’re doing it in order to achieve love and happiness. Don’t limit yourself: be open and relaxed this is an adventure so have fun, go with the flow, and enjoy yourself. This is by far the greatest opportunity you will have of meet intelligent and beautiful women who are interested in meeting you. Chances are you will meet a lady and start a long lasting relationship.
- When you are meeting a lady for the first time, ask them questions to find some common interest in order to generate a conversation. This way you keep the introduction relaxed, and they will feel more comfortable and relaxed talking with you. When you both are comfortable and relaxed it is much easier to get to know each other's opinions and personalities.
- Show the ladies you are confident in your surroundings. Ask the staff for suggestions on great places to take a date, nightclubs, and good restaurants. So when you ask your lady on a date, let her know what you have planned. She will be very surprised and impressed how confident you feel in her city. You will score big points by being assertive!
- When on a date if you want to get a read on how she might feel about you then watch her body language. Pay attention! If your date is playing with her hair, moistening her lips, or looking for an excuse to touch you, this will give you a good idea that she is attracted to you. However, if she has her arms crossed, keeping her distance or not smiling, she most likely is not interested. However, body language isn’t perfect, but it can help to determine weather you want to move forward with the lady.
- When meeting a lady
for the first date, remember to relax and have fun. Many men are nervous
and overwhelmed at first (me included!) because the ladies are extremely beautiful.
Just have the mindset that you have nothing to lose, and remember the
women who meet you are as interested in you as you are in them. Staying
relaxed will help you be yourself. Be kind and show a sense of humor,
listen to the lady, ask questions, and do not be afraid to reveal your
true feelings. By being you, you’ll accurately represent who you are, and
you’ll have a better chance of finding a compatible, life-long partner.
- Bring photos! Show her pictures of yourself, friends, family, pets, home, and your hobbies/activities, It will give the lady a better understanding of who you are and what area of the country you live and what the area looks like.
- Be yourself and dress comfortably during most of your trip. Check on what is the typical weather condition for the city you’re traveling to and dress accordingly. Your clothes may be jeans, shorts, trousers and swimsuit. For the socials, dress elegantly; remember you have only one chance to make a good first impression.
- Bring a few gifts for the ladies that you find special. For the most part the ladies can purchase almost anything you could purchase in the states. All ladies like stylish costume jewelry, good quality perfume, or a box of dark chocolate.
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